Our Story

Anthony and Jonathan met the modern way: by swiping right. Fun fact: they spoke briefly in 2018 but picked up the conversation again in 2019, which led to a first date in Washington, DC. Their first date was jam-packed with activities and what was supposed to be a brunch and a movie (Avengers: End Game, which is quite a commitment of time for a first date) turned into an all-day affair. They connected about everything from politics, musicals, to their mutual love of Game of Thrones. By the second date, they fell into a rhythm naturally with Jonathan making his prized filet recipe and Anthony debating that Cersei was always the superior character over Daenerys.

Their first year was spent making memories from trips to New York City, Provincetown, and Nashville to frequent trips to Hilton Head. They quickly started a life together in DC and had fun every step of the way.

Anthony and Jonathan got engaged in August of 2021 in Hilton Head and it had some unique challenges. Think: assumed home invasion and an Uber driver from hell. Jonathan’s best friend Kate helped set the stage and after an evening out, Anthony proposed with “Golden Hour” by Kacey Musgraves playing in the background. 

We’re so excited for you to join as we say “I do” in a place that has a special meaning to us and to so many of our friends and family.

The Festivities

Wedding Menu

  • COCKTAIL HOUR


    Chef's Signature Charcuterie Display: Selection of Shaved Prosciutto, Capicola, Soppressata, Salami, Artisan Cheese, Marinated Vegetables, Caperberries and Tapenande.

    Shrimp Display: Local shrimp with Lemon Wedges and Cocktail Sauce,

    Passed Hors d'oeuvres: Tiny Tomato Tarts: Vine Ripe Tomatos, Fresh Basil, Mozzarella, Cheddar Gratin, Mini Carolina Crab Cakes, Spiced Peach Chutney

  • DINNER


    Carolina She Crab Soup
    with Sherry Cream Fraiche

    Baby Iceberg Wedge with Smoked Bacon, Baby Heirloom Tomatoes, Shaved Red Onion, and Buttermilk Ranch Dressing

    House Baked Yeast Rolls with Whipped Butter

    Entrée (choice of): Petite Angus Filet Mignon with Tobacco Onions, Roasted Fingerling Potatoes Fresh Asparagus/Julienne of Confetti Vegetables OR French Cut Chicken Breast Grilled and Served with a Wilted Spinach and Boursin Cheese Sauce, Baby Potatoes and Julienne of Confetti Vegetables

  • WEDDING CAKE


    Lemon Cake with Raspberry Filling

    White Almond Cake with choice
    of Strawberry or Vanilla Filling

The Destination

Since we are from different parts of the country and have lived in various places throughout our relationship, we thought a destination wedding in one of our favorite places would be the perfect backdrop for our wedding.

Hilton Head Island is a magical place. There’s something marvelously different about the relaxed, warm and welcoming vibe found on the island. Not only is it where we’ve spent many vacations, but it’s where we became engaged. We hope you enjoy the beauty and spirit of this majestic island with us.

Getting There

  • Two airports serve Hilton Head Island:

    Savannah/Hilton Head International Airport

    Taxi cabs are located on the lower level outside of baggage claim and offer flat rates to the island ($80-85).

    Taxis, shuttles, and car services can be pre-arranged for transportation to the island.

    Ground Transportation

    Hilton Head Airport

    We recommend pre-arranging transportation to/from the island, as transportation may be limited during peak times and for evening flights.

    Ground Transportation

    Please know that rideshares (Uber/Lyft) have limited availability on the island.

  • Please note that there will be no parking at the ceremony. Guests driving to the wedding can park at the reception and take the trolly over to the ceremony.

    All guests will be added to the list at the guard station into Port Royal Plantation.

    Reception Address: 45 S Port Royal Dr, Hilton Head Island, SC 29928

  • We are happy to provide a trolley to shuttle guests from the Westin Hilton Head Resort and Spa, or the Port Royal Plantation Beach House, to the wedding ceremony at the house of Dr. and Mrs. Hagen – 13 Oceanpoint North, Hilton Head Island, SC 29928.

    The trolley will arrive at the Westin starting at 2:45 p.m. and depart with the first set of guests at 3:00 p.m. There will be a second pick up at 3:30 p.m.

Rest Your Head

Westin Hilton Head Island Resort & Spa

2 Grasslawn Ave.
Hilton Head Island, South Carolina 29928

We are happy to offer discounted rates for our wedding guests at the Westin Hilton Head Island Resort Hotel & Spa. The four-diamond resort is situated within the Port Royal Plantation on the Atlantic Ocean, offering our guests an upscale oceanfront escape along the scenic Lowcountry coast.

Please note that the contracted cutoff date is Monday, August 22, so reservations must be booked online by that date. Rooms will be added on a rolling basis depending on demand. Please reach out to us if you are having difficulties booking.

Please refer to the Transportation section for the wedding day trolly schedule.

Guests should book directly with the Westin Hilton Head Island
Resort Hotel & Spa by
clicking here.

Additional Accommodations

  • Omni Hilton Head Oceanfront Resort

    Located in Palmetto Dunes

    23 Ocean Lane, Hilton Head, South Carolina 29928

    (843) 842-8000

    Book Online

  • Marriott Hilton Head Resort & Spa

    Located in Palmetto Dunes

    One Hotel Circle, Hilton Head, South Carolina 29928

    (843) 686-8400

    Book Online

  • Sonesta Resort Hilton Head Island

    Located in Shipyard

    130 Shipyard Drive, Hilton Head, South Carolina 29928

    (843) 842-2400

    Book Online

  • Vacation Rentals

    Some guests may want an extended stay during our wedding. The island offers many vacation rental opportunities. We recommend checking out rentals in Palmetto Dunes or Sea Pines Plantation.

Explore the Region

  • TO EAT

    Hudson’s Seafood House on the Docks

    Old Oyster Factory Restaurant

    Jane Bistro and Bar

    Nunzio Restaurant & Bar

    Poseidon Costal Cuisine

    San Miguel’s Mexican

    Michael Anthony’s Cucina Italiana

    The Salty Dog Café

    Hilton Head Ice Cream

  • TO DO

    Visit the Harbour Town and see the iconic Harbour Town Lighthouse. Many cruises (Dolphin cruises, dinner cruises, etc.) leave out of here.

    Dine or souvenir shop in Coligny Circle. The area has over 25 restaurants and food shops, numerous store fronts and souvenir shops.

    Play tennis at one of the 19 tennis clubs on the island.

    Golf one Hilton Head Island’s 23 championship courses, both public and private, designed by renowned golf architects like Robert Trent Jones Sr., Pete Dye and Jack Nicklaus.

    Visit historic Savannah and witness the iconic Bird Girl statue from Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil.

Celebrate With Us

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